Saturday, January 31

Saying goodbye to Stewart

I know this is going to sound like the silliest thing you've ever heard....but yesterday was an emotional day. Bittersweet. It was the "official" goodbye to Fort Stewart. Yes, we've been stationed at Fort Sill since September but yesterday we said goodbye and signed the papers to our home on Lancaster Way in Richmond Hill, GA.

We loved that house. It was where so many good memories were made. Fort Stewart was a station that we survived two deployments. It was where we met our best friends. It was where AWTR was started. It was ........just a wonderful time in our lives.

We know that we can't go back and we know that we only WANT to move forward...but the fact that it's now so permanent makes me sad.

The good news? We're finally not homeowners anymore!! Paying two rent/mortgages was getting pretty hard so we're so glad to be free of that and able to start working on paying down debt!

Here's to you Fort Stewart and Lancaster Way! We will always love you!

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Friday, January 30

Loving A [Citizen] Soldier, A Warrior


3 Doors Down-- Citizen Soldier video

We played Citizen Soldier during the show Monday night, and it
seemed to get a good response. I personally listen to 3 Doors Down
for a lot of deployment time, like my soundtrack.
It's edgy, and I love Here Without You (On my lonely mind).

Here are the videos that go along with the whole "Go Guard" campaign.

I love my own Citizen Soldier, and I thank Kid Rock and 3 Doors Down for supporting them. By the way, check out other supportive, patriotic artists at http://www.armywifetalkradio.com/music.shtml.


Kid Rock (Dale Earnhardt)-- Warrior video


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Thursday, January 29

This Country is Beautiful!!!

This Country is Beautiful!!!

We made it!!! Traveling to AZ has been a journey I will never forget….so much to see! I will share more in the near future. We truly live in a beautiful country! America is truly a quilt of amazing views that would call each of us to reflect on the past and hope for the future!

Wishing you the best,
Tara JW

“We live in a wonderful world that is full of beauty, charm and adventure. There is no end to the adventures we can have if only we seek them with our eyes open.” - Jawaharial Nehru
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FREE BOOKS? No way!

HOLY COW girls!!! I'm floored. This is SO COOL! Yep, it's true! Check out THE NEW Military One Source www.militaryonesource.com and click on the left side (you may have to be logged in) where it says LIBRARY. They will SEND you FREE books!!

There are fiction, nonfiction, and even audio books. FREE. yes, FREE! I am still in shock. I ordered a few myself just a few minutes ago. Guess what too? Shellie Vandevoorde's book "Seperated by Duty" is on the list....and so is Elaine Dumlers "I'm Already Home...Again" and NO WAY so is Kathie and Holly's "Help! I'm a Military Spouse". You guys better go quick in case they change their minds! :)

www.militaryonesource.com
Military OneSource has an ever-changing selection of popular fiction and non-fiction titles free to Military OneSource users. Order directly from our Web site.

Playaway books are the newest format of audio book. A Playaway books weighs two ounces and comes with earbuds and a battery. Playaways are approximately the size of a business card (3.25 inches long by 2 inches wide, by 0.5 inch deep). When you receive your Playaway, all you have to do is press "play" to start listening to your book. Its portability allows you to enjoy your favorite authors and titles on-the-go, whenever and wherever.

The Military OneSource Online Library Resources are links to electronic databases, e-books, and audio books. Access our diverse list of resources by logging into the Military OneSource Web site and going to our Online Library Resources page.

Enjoy access 24/7 to these databases and books from the comfort of your home. We have something for everyone--including Tumblebooks, "how-to" home improvement books, standardized test prep, and more!
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Save some bucks!

www.commissaries.smartsource.com

www.redplum.com

www.coolsavings.com

www.miltiaryshoppers.com
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Rent, Buy, or Post

Every time we pcs we start having the rent, buy, or live on post conversation. The economy, deployment, and Basic allowance for housing seem to be all we can talk about. We have rented, we have lived on post and in housing leased by the government. We have never bought a house.

At my baby shower the ladies and I got into a discussion about renting or buying. It was very interesting that half of the ladies always bought a house when they moved and the other half had never bought a house either renting or living on post. Most of the buyers wanted to build equity and make use of the the Basic Allowance for Housing or BAH. The renters did not want to have to worry about selling a house with frequent pcsing.

I was absolutely positive that I wanted to live on post because my husband is going to be deploying a couple of months after we move. I feel safe living on post particularly when I am without my husband. Then I looked at the floor plans for the housing on post. It is a lot like another house we lived in on post where the living room, dining room, family room are all one room, it was very dark and very small. So now we are thinking about buying a house. We have looked at a lot of great houses that are very affordable, lots of choices. However I love living on post. I love when my husband can come home after PT or come home for lunch. I also like that we can go by his office and say hi, but the fact of the matter is that he is likely to be gone more than he is home. I am not sure what to do.

I want to buy a house that I can paint or landscape. I would love to have a little garden in the back. I am afraid that being away from post will mean that I am isolated from the support that post has to offer. I am afraid that the next time a pcs comes up we will have to be separated because we can't sell the house. Hopefully when we get there it will be obvious, either the perfect house to buy or housing on post will be better than I thought.


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Wednesday, January 28

Today, Tomorrow, Everyday is Mom's Day

video

By Kevin Robinson, public affairs specialist, FORT LEE, Va. – Every day in commissaries around the world, mothers are shopping for their families. They often pay attention to everyone but themselves. The Defense Commissary Agency would like to lavish some well-deserved attention on the military mom for a change.

"Moms are the heartbeat of our military families, whether they are holding down the home front or in uniform themselves deployed down range," said Philip E. Sakowitz Jr., DeCA director and chief executive officer. "From January through Mother's Day in May, we want to focus special attention on our military moms and show them how much they mean to us."

With its "Every Day is Mom's Day at Your Commissary" initiative, DeCA wants to pamper mom with a variety of specially priced health and beauty care products set aside just for them. It's the commissary's way of saying "thank-you" to a customer demographic that represents about 80 percent of daily commissary shoppers.

Beginning in early January, commissaries stateside and overseas will roll out their "red carpets" for mothers who populate all segments of the military community. Each store will highlight a special shopping area for military moms, a place where mothers can purchase discounted products to treat themselves or where their husbands and children also can do the honors.

"The military mom is the person who typically runs the household and routinely puts herself at the end of a long list of family obligations," Sakowitz said. " 'Every Day is Mom's Day' seeks to put our military moms first, honoring all the sacrifices they make each and every day."
Commissary customers can expect to see banners, posters and shelf signs that point the way toward product displays designed especially for mom. They also will see product giveaways and demonstrations as well as an emphasis on women's health articles posted in the DeCA Dietitian Forum.

About DeCA: The Defense Commissary Agency operates a worldwide chain of commissaries providing groceries to military personnel, retirees and their families in a safe and secure shopping environment. Authorized patrons purchase items at cost plus a 5-percent surcharge, which covers the costs of building new commissaries and modernizing existing ones. Shoppers save an average of more than 30 percent on their purchases compared to commercial prices — savings worth about $3,400 annually for a family of four. A core military family support element, and a valued part of military pay and benefits, commissaries contribute to family readiness, enhance the quality of life for America's military and their families, and help recruit and retain the best and brightest men and women to serve their country.


So what have you noticed or recieved?
Any good deals, a shoulder massage, or pretty flowers?
Do tell...by commenting...DeCA deserves many return thanks!
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Tuesday, January 27

First Lady's Message to Military Families

By, Michelle Obama
On Tuesday, as people from all walks of life come together in common purpose to begin the work of renewing America's promise, my daughters and I will stand beside my husband as he takes the oath of office as the 44th president of the United States.

People have asked me how I'll feel at that moment. As a wife, I'll be thinking about how proud I am of my husband and how I believe so deeply that he will be an extraordinary president. As a mother, I'll be bursting with pride at the thought of my girls now being able to envision endless choices for themselves and the joy it will be to watch them grow up in the White House. And as a daughter, I'll be profoundly grateful to my parents, knowing that I am here only because of their lifetime of faith and hard work.

They're my proof that the American promise endures. It's that promise we all share — that our children might grow up with unlimited possibility, that our families might know the dreams of opportunity and prosperity, that people in every nation might look at the proud banner of this country and know the boundless meaning of hope.

As I take on my newest role — First Lady — I'll be thinking about what that promise means to all those whom I've had the humbling privilege to meet these past two years on the campaign trail: Americans across the country who opened their doors and hearts to share their stories with me — stories I carry to this day.


I particularly cherished my visits with military families all across the country. I met so many strong and inspiring military spouses eager to share their stories, their dreams for the future and the unique challenges they face because of their families' selfless service to our country.

And if there's one thing I learned, it's that when our servicemen and women go to war, their families go with them. I saw how they take care of each other, heard how they fill in whenever the system fails and discovered that the trials they faced always were matched by the hope they shared that better days are still ahead.

The simple 35-word oath my husband will take and the peaceful transfer of power it completes makes it easy to forget that the great fortune of our citizenship isn't free at all. It's a responsibility inherited only because generations of Americans have fought and bled and died for it.

So as I watch Barack take that oath, I'll be thinking especially about those members of our American family who stand guard across the world and the loved ones who await their safe return. Because even as we mark this moment in American history, there still will be empty seats at the dinner table; there still will be spouses struggling to juggle roles and responsibilities; there still will be children who mark the passing of a birthday without Mommy and toddlers who know their father only by a grainy video stream from a far-flung corner of the globe.

My husband and I are deeply grateful for the sacrifices that these families make to protect all American families. And we join them — today and every day — in praying for their loved ones and their safety. They don't ask a lot in return, just a Washington that understands the challenges they face as part of their extraordinary commitment to our country.

My husband understands that commitment, and he will ensure America lives up to its end. As military families join us on Tuesday, in person and in spirit, I want each and every one of them to know that for as long as I have the tremendous honor of being your First Lady, your voices will be heard, you will have an advocate in the White House, and the American promise you preserve always will extend to you, too.

All of us can learn a fundamental lesson from our military families: You don't need to wear a uniform to serve your country. We all have something to contribute to the life of this nation.

Monday is Martin Luther King Jr. Day. And to honor the legacy of a man who believed that everybody could be great because anybody can serve, my family and I will spend the day performing activities in service to others. And we'll ask all Americans to join us in making an ongoing commitment to serve their community and their country, because in this new season of hope, that's the only way we'll begin renewing America's promise for all who reach for it and all who defend it — as one nation and one people.

On Tuesday night, my husband and I will tuck in our daughters like we always do. Their bedrooms will be different, their home unfamiliar. But they will drift off to sleep protected by that same sacrifice that has kept all of our families safe and safeguarded our freedom for generations — the sacrifice of our men and women in uniform and their families.

For that, we could not be more grateful — or more proud.

Special Thanks to Military.com
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Murphy's Law

I've been a victim of Murphy's Law. It started like each and every mission, little did I know the problems lurking around the corner. First problem the car with the brand new battery was dead in my driveway. Ok I can handle this. Long story short the battery was bad.

The second problem was a tad bit harder to handle. Kathryn comes to tell me there is a ghost taking a shower in the downstairs shower. I look at her like she had three heads, she is old enough to know there is no ghosts. So she says the shower isn't on but she can hear water running. I tell laugh at her joke to try and get her to stop. She says "noooo I'm serious!" Now I have to go investigate. Yep you sure can hear water. One of the pipes broke in the wall!!!! I have to shut water down to the house and call the plumber. Living this far up North getting a plumber the day you call him in the coldest months is almost impossible. Yeah that's is such a treat! Thank God it was a water pipe and not part of the heating loops. After looking at the house plans (for an hour) I was able to just shut down the downstairs water off. The plumber finally came tore out a wall and fixed the pipe.

I'm hoping this is the last of the problems but if not I know I can deal and overcome.
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Tax Services

Tis the season... TAX SEASON! Soldiers, family members and retirees do not have to pay for tax preparation off post. Your local installation offers free tax filing services at their tax center. Most centers opened on January 20Th and your soldier should have already received his W2 on his LES. A trained staff member lead by the legal assistance office will be able to prepare and file your tax return electronically. If a refund is due, you will usually receive it within 7-10 days. don't forget your important documents, such as: W2, Military ID, Social Security Card, Power of Attorney (if necessary), receipts for charitable contributions, and items of the sort. For additional questions contact your post's local legal office.
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Flat Stanley

While my hubby and I were home on leave he did something that made me fall in love with him all over again. He stopped to visit some school children he had been doing a Flat Stanley for. If you do not know who Flat Stanley is you have to check out this link. (STANLEY) It's a super neat program. My soldier had been taking Stanley all over with him during the last deployment to Iraq and even on our post once he arrived home for re-deployment. We took tons of photos and later shared them with the students he had been in touch with. He stayed for nearly 2 hours asking them and answering their questions. I helped him to hand out small prizes (water bottles, key chains, and dog tags), and the children really loved it. Just yesterday the students sent us a packet of colored pages and letters of thank you's for all my husband had done and for my expert slide show. What really made me swoon was his love over the children. He really took his time with each student and was very enthusiastic. He went out of his way to be a good role model for them and to represent the Army well. I am just so proud of him. Someday he will make a fantastic father. I am just lucky that he's all mine.
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The Man Den

What's it all about anyway? I mean we just moved here. Not to mention the house only has two bedrooms, so guess where the guest have to stay. Yes, my husband is up to his Man-shananigans again. (As I giggle out loud typing this.) He has staked claim to our spare room. Marking it with all his "MAN GEAR". Turtle shells, deer heads, arrows, rifles and fox skins, OH MY! the room is a sort of camo / outdoors theme. To be honest, I like it. I like to see him happy and to have his own space after this long deployment. It's a peaceful area for him, and that is a very good thing. It's just funny. What's with boys and the "Man Den". I mean I don't get a craft room, or a scrapping area. Boys can be so silly. I already had to promise my mom that when she does get the chance to travel here I will remove that creep staring critter from the wall so she can rest well. Welcome Home and Welcome to Georgia I suppose. Golly, I love my hubby :) He's such a man's man!
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Monday, January 26

Valentine's Day Care Packages!

Just a reminder that it's getting to be about that time! :) Do you need ideas? Visit our archives http://awtr.blogspot.com/2008/01/valentines-day-care-package-ideas-for.html and see what I've come up with - and be sure to read the comments of the other bloggers!
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Talking Memories - Record your message today!

Last week we had Shai from Talking Memories on our show. He has set us up a special page for AWTR listeners to register and do their greetings.

To find out more listen to show 197: Week of Jan 19, 2009 for the Resource of the Week. Follow the instructiosn below to do your greeting!

1. Go into www.talkingmemories.com/awtr-greeting/

2. Click "start here" at the bottom of that page.

3. Fill in the Sign Up fields on the right hand side, click "I agree...", and click "Register".

4. Follow the steps to record your message / greeting.

From then on, just go through the Home page to Log In....
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Army Wife Life - Jan 26, 2009





This edition of Army Wife Life discussion is brought to you in partnership with Lucky Army Wives! (www.LuckyArmyWives.com)

Please leave your answers to the questions below by commenting on this post. Listen for Tara & Star's answers on Show 198: Week of Jan 26, 2009 using our AWTR Player to the left!

1. What is your #1 Rule of Engagement within your Army community?
a. I dive in each and every time
b. I am a bit more cautious and like to take baby steps
c. I do not get involved - those women are nuts!

2. Have you ever personally known someone who "changed their persona" from one post to the next?

For example a Marcia Brady turned Peg Bundy! (Or vice versa) this is the ol' Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde syndrome...Army Wife Style!

3. The funniest thing I have ever seen in an ACS lending closet is:
a. Baby doll sitting in car seat...like you wouldn't actually know to put your own baby in the seat!
b. Silverware tray with only spoons (Hello Ramen soup, meet Cinnamon Toast Crunch cereal!)
c. A full set of (for a family of 4) matching winter jackets in lime green.

4. I would want to hang out with my "coffee" (or FRG group) even if our husbands didn't work together. True/False

5. Pearl listens to Kanye West, and Pit Bull on her IPod. Mercedes only wears the headphones in order to discourage others from even trying to talk to her.
Star listens to 3 Doors Down and Tara rocks out to funky dance music.
When you are enjoying your workout - what is your favorite thing to listen to?
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Saturday, January 24

Revolve Weekend

Well, it wasn't really a weekend. More like 24 hours. It's a teen girl event. Focused on teaching girls the truth about boys, their relationship with God, and themselves. I never thought that I would learn something while I was there. Go figure.
Natalie Grant talked about how just one person can make a difference. How one person can indeed make a change in this world. That instead of plugging along getting through from day to day you need to live your legacy. Live how you want to be remembered. Which reminds me of a church reader board that said " live your life how you want to be remembered so you pastor doesn't have to lie at your funeral."
There was a 14 year old boy at our conference. His name was Austin. He founded hoops for hope. At nine he started this idea. It has grown and opened many doors for people in Africa. Last year they raised enough money to build a high school for 1,000 students and a medical clinic. It all started by him standing in a gymnasium shooting 2,057 free throws and raising $2,057. That number represented the number of kids that would loose a parents during his school day.
http://www.revolvetour.com/hoops-of-hope/
So many days I wake up and pray for just enough strength and grace to get through the day. But after this weekend I realize that getting through the day isn't what God wants from us. He does want us to change the world. Each and everyone of us. I get caught up in the I'm to busy syndrom that plaques our generation. But what am I truly busy with? Only the things that I have committed to and only the things that I have allowed. Noone else has held my hand up in the air for these things, I have done it. Now having 4 kids that are active doens't help. Nor will homeschooling a child. The biggest thing I took away and really felt take hold of my heart is this, do you want to be at the end of your journey on earth and be the person that would of or could of, or if I only had a few more years I could have? Or do you want to be the person that changed the world. Dispite what the world put in front of you, you looked to God and took on the challenge. Knowing that threw God all things are possible. I can honestly say I have been the excuse maker. I have been one to say I am not cut out for that. Or maybe one day when I have the time or the money. I'm here to tell you that day will never come. If you don't take each day and live it and stop wishing for tomorrow we will be at the end of our journey wishing for more time.
I want each of my WOF sister's(my blood sister too)to hold me accountable. Am I doing something today that will put change in motion for the future? Truth is a 14 year old has done more to change this world than I have in 33 years. I think it's time I started
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Friday, January 23

Field Problem – Commo (Across the Miles)

Dear Tara & Star,
My husband and I were just married. This is our first deployment. I don’t really know what to expect. There is tons of information and a lot that I don’t understand. My biggest question is how are you able to communicate to them when they are in Iraq? How long do you go without hearing from your soldier?

Amber; Fort Bragg, NC;
Active Army spouse; 3 months


Dear Amber:

You’re right, there is a lot of information and being new to the military, and facing a deployment is certainly a challenge. Hopefully some of the information we have for you can ease your mind a bit. First and foremost, you need to understand that there is no one size fits all answer to your question. We wish you could tell you how often you will hear from your soldier, but honestly we can not.

Many things will depend on what area your husband is deployed to and the resources (i.e. internet connection) that are available in that area. We always suggest that family members ask their soldier how and how often they want to communicate. It’s also important you ask them what they want communicated—bad news, daily business, town current events, etc.

Thankfully modern technology has made it possible to have many more choices for communication mediums. Recent feedback at ArmyWifeTalkRadio showed that military spouses communicated with their soldiers who were away from home in a variety of ways.

1. E-Mail 37%
2. Instant Messaging 30%
3. MWR Calls 7%
4. Letters 7%
5. Personal Cell Phones 17%
6. "Texting" 3%

Email
You can utilize your email that already exists to communicate back and forth. However, in order to be more secure we recommend having your soldier create an Army Knowledge Online (AKO) email account for you. Visit AKO at http://www.us.army.mil/ako, Navy Knowledge Online, or Air Force Portal as appropriate.

Instant Messaging
There are many instant messaging programs available. Some of the most popular are Windows Live Messenger (http://get.live.com/messenger/overview), Yahoo IM (http://messenger.yahoo.com/), or Skype (http://www.skype.com). For secure instant messaging you’ll need to set up your AKO account as described above and utilize the free integrated AKO IM program.

Phone Calls
Your soldier will receive Morale Welfare and Recreation (MWR) calls. These calls are usually fifteen minutes in length and are made at a call center. We have heard of some soldiers utilizing Skype VOIP services, or purchasing personal cell phones to make calls. We also recommend SPAWAR, a service for discounted phone cards. Find out more at http://www.oif.spawareurope.net/.

Letters & Packages
Unique, personalized care packages and handwritten letters are worth their weight in gold. We have many ideas on our website for special care packages. There are benefits associated with the mailing system as well. For starters your soldier can mail regular envelope sized letters using FREE MAIL so don’t worry about mailing stamps! Additionally, the USPS offers discounts to military families who utilize their flat rate boxes to ship to APO/FPO addresses. Find out more at http://www.usps.com/supportingourtroops/.

Our last suggestion is to think "outside the box." Instead of an email, figure out how to send an e-greeting card or e-video. Get a third party involved by enlisting the help of care package charities at AmericaSupportsYou.mil. (This helps keep costs down). Or send a gift card or AAFES gift certificate so your soldier can choose their heart's desire or the real necessities as they see fit.

Have other questions? To submit your Field Problem™, e-mail FromTheField@FieldProblems.com. Please include your first name, location, branch of service, and years in/associated with the military. Questions may be edited for length and clarity. Field Problems™ reserves the right to read on the air and/or publish on its Web site or in any other form the emails and letters that we receive. By sending us a letter or email, you agree to these terms.

© 2008, Crooks and Henderson. Field Problems TM is a self-syndicated column by authors and military spouses Tara Crooks & Starlett “Star” Henderson. Receive this and other Field Problems: SOLVED c/o Crooks and Henderson right in your inbox by signing up at www.FieldProblems.com. Field Problems™ is just one solution to the challenges encountered by military families in Crooks and Henderson's kitbag. Ask about workshops or Field Exercises™ customized to solve your or your organization's Field Problems™.
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Wednesday, January 21

Banana Cake - yum-o! Great for coffees!

Ladies,
The coffee went GREAT! There were over 20 wives there and everyone had a good time. Someone suggested (from Twitter) that I should write an article or do a show on how to host a good coffee b/c "fun" was not what they described such said events. Perhaps I will.

My banana cake was a hit - here's the recipe! Lookout Betty Crocker!!



Prep Time: 15 min Total Time: 1 hr 45 min Makes: 16 servings

What You Need
1 pkg. (2-layer size) yellow cake mix
3 eggs
1 cup mashed ripe bananas (about 3 bananas)
1 cup BREAKSTONE'S or KNUDSEN Sour Cream
1/4 cup oil
1 pkg. (8 oz.) PHILADELPHIA Cream Cheese, softened
1/2 cup (1 stick) butter, softened
1 pkg. (16 oz.) powdered sugar (about 4 cups)
1 cup PLANTERS Walnut Pieces, finely chopped

Make It
HEAT oven to 350°F. Beat cake mix, eggs, bananas, sour cream and oil with mixer on low until moistened, scraping bottom of bowl often. Beat on medium 2 min. Pour into greased and floured 13x9-inch pan.

BAKE 35 min. or until toothpick inserted in center comes out clean. Cool cake completely in pan on wire rack.

BEAT cream cheese and butter with mixer on medium until blended. Gradually add sugar, beating well after each addition.

REMOVE cake from pan. Carefully cut cake crosswise in half using serrated knife. Place 1 cake half, top-side down, on plate; spread top with frosting. Top with remaining cake half, top side up. Frost top and sides. Press nuts onto sides. Refrigerate leftovers.

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BBQ Ribs

We just had guest last night for dinner and I took a chance and made these for the first time. They were yummy :) We served them with green beans and sweet potatoes. Oh, and don't forget the beer bread. Enjoy!

Barbecued Ribs
Prep: 25 minutes
Bake: 1 1/2 hours
Oven: 350 degrees
Makes: 6 servings

Ingredients:
3-4 lbs pork loin back ribs
3/4 cup catsup
3/4 cup water
2 tbsp vinegar
2 tbsp Worcestershire sauce
1 tsp paprika
1 tsp chili powder
1/2 tsp black pepper
1/4 tsp salt
1/4 red pepper
1 cup finely chopped onion

1. If desired, cut ribs into serving-size pieces. In a large shallow roasting pan place the ribs with the bone side down. Bake, covered, in a 350 degree oven for 1 hour. Carefully draine off liquid in roasting pan.

2. Meanwhile, in a medium bowl combine the catsup, water, vinegar, Worcestershire sauce, paprika, chili powder, black pepper, salt, and red pepper. Stir in onion. Pour mixture over ribs. Bake, uncovered, for 30 minutes more or until ribs are tender basting once with sauce. Pass sauce with ribs.
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Tuesday, January 20

Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow!

I still can't get used to living in the south. Yesterday before the snow even came school was delayed 2 hours. Then this morning at 6 am, my phone was ringing to let me know that school was canceled for today. We ended up with about 5 inches of snow. More than we thought we would get. Tonight at about 6 pm we got a call telling us that school was canceled for tomorrow. Thursday is the only day left for the kids in school. Friday is a teacher work day. I grew up in Wisconsin. 5 inches of snow is a light dusting. It isn't much at all. It's supposed to warm up tomorrow to melt and then freeze again tomorrow night. The kids have enjoyed a snow day. They played outside and LOVED being in the snow. It's the constant wet clothes that drives me insane. I am thankful that they are all old enough to dress and undress themselves for outdoor play. I forget how beautfil the snow can be. But it would be nice to be in Wisconsin where people know how to drive in it.
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Monday, January 19

Moving Forward...

Hello All,

As my husband and I prepare to move forward with our journey to Arizona and Maryland. I am both filled with an eager feeling to complete this transition and excitement toward our future. I must be honest before today I was a bit concerned about what to anticipate on this new journey.

Today…I was reminded of the importance of moving forward even when it is a bit difficult to move on to the next chapter of this book of life. On this Martin Luther King Day…I realize just how blessed I am and how right it is for me to move forward with the journey I have been given.

Wishing You the best!
Tara JW

Cowardice asks the question, “Is it safe?” Expediency asks the question, “Is it politic?” And Vanity comes along and asks the question, “Is it popular?” But Conscience asks the question “Is it right?” And there comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular, but he must do it because Conscience tells him it is right.

Martin Luther King
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How hard could it be?

This past week I decided to start a spouse coffee for the Captain's Career Course. Let me back up a second. My husband brought us here to Fort Sill, OK to be an instrutor for the Captain's Career Course for the Field Artillery. To make sense of the situation for you I will explain. There are at least two classes of Captains going through this course at the same time. Right now, there are three. Each is divided into four sections with their own instructor. My husband is one of them. His section has about 15 students. It doesn't function like a normal unit. They are here for six months and then they leave to other duty stations. Nevertheless, they are here for six months. Six months of not knowing a soul. Six months of working alongside their peers in a course designed to prepare them for Command. Six months their spouses know NO ONE and six months they could be learning too.

I found out, once I settled our own family, that there wasn't anything for these ladies. No coffee, no FRG. So I set out to create something simple - a spouse "meet and greet". You'd think it was simple. It wasn't. I spent the latter part of two weeks preparing a roster of spouses. How hard could it be? Captains giving up their spouse's email. We're not talking brand new Joe here - we're talking 30 year old men (ok, I'm averaging). WRONG! It was an act of Congress.

The end result was combining 8 different rosters and a bunch of "hey I know this girl isn't on there" from the spouses. We're still not complete but we are working out the kinks. I've gotten pretty far - enough to be able to be at their spouse welcome and a great connection with the Commander with support to make this work. We started with only a few addresses and now we have quite a list. We started with 3 RSVPs for the coffee and now we have over 30 attending.

It's something I'm proud of and scares me to death at the same time. I'll meet people which is great. I know I can help them, which is what I love to do. But 30 people in my living room tomorrow night? Whoooo!!

The moral of the story is - if you don't see something there you think should be don't be afraid to start it yourself. One person CAN change something.
The other moral is - make sure your husband knows your email address and knows that he should give it out when asked about spouse events. Let it be KNOWN to him that you want to participate and that YOU DO CARE about things that are going on in your FRG, Spouses Club, on post etc. I think sometimes they assume that since they don't care you won't. Grill them on bringing home flyers and making sure they make it to your desk.

I'll let you know how the coffee goes!
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Friday, January 16

One man's fort...




is another man's
(aka little girl's) coccoon.


These are true military kids, happy to be wherever mom & dad are, happy to be alive. This past month, they enjoyed being on the road. They enjoyed leaving home to see family, friends, and snow. They looked forward to the cold, the ice, the chimney smoke. Conversely, they enjoyed returning home to brown grass and too many squirrels. They're my kids. Now where did they ever learn to be at peace, resilient, and care-free?

Answer: I (we, if you include dad) have it in us. We must!

But, I sure don't feel like it. It's been many months since I have felt those things. I've been dug into my fort, waving all the appropriate flags, sending up the appropriate smoke signals and making like the inhabitants (my mind, heart, and gut) are all ok. Only my top advisors would know I'm not.

Tammy briefly mentioned in her post about 2009 being the year of D-day. Deployment day. She just wanted to get through Christmas before it was really addressed. That's what I said. Let me just have Christmas, a trip home (our 1st in 2.5 years), block leave w/ our family, and then I'll emerge from my coccoon.

Huh! New Year's Day didn't make everything magically feel better. 2009 is still the year of D-day. And now I'm saying, let me just have my daughter's birthday, or my birthday, or spring break...I'm a stubborn one. I guess to be honest, I want it all: him here, not there, not preparing to be there, or not returning from there.

But I also want him to serve, I want him to fulfill his dreams, I want him to fight for our country, and I want him to "gulp" help him fight for other's and their country.

I told you I'm stubborn. But I'm smart too. Or I like to think I am. It's time to stop digging in and holding on. It's time to engage, emerge, call in reinforcements and recognize we are in the pre-deployment phase (albeit very long in the Guard world).

Dare I say, I must eat my own words that I just told my husband today.

At lunch, he was stressing, jittery, with that "wish I had more time" look in his eyes, and I said, "Honey, chill! We've been here before. You've endured the crazy timelines, the moving targets, and the out-of-control bosses. You've kicked butt, brought 'em back, and got the girl. It's the same song, 6th verse; just chill."

So, I hope you enjoyed my pictures that helped my anaology along.
Cold, deep, snowy holes are what you make of them.

I'm going to chill. I've endured crazy timelines, moving targets, and out-of-control kids. I kicked butt and got the guy in the end. So let's do this...

(that's where I'm at tonight at least.)
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Monday night on AWTR: Nikki Fitness

Hey everyone! Monday night on our show Nikki Fitness will be joining us for the third segment of our AWTR Smarter Resolution Series! Here are some tips to get you started and "get your motor running" and ready for some workout action in 2009!

Set goals that are realistic and specific, and having a set time period as your goal will help you stick to a new fitness regime. Write down your plan of action for every day, week, etc. Make sure it is something you can measure and not just the end goal, but the milestones along the way. Start with a plan that you think you can accomplish or exceed. (Walking for 30 minutes at a time. Then running for 20 minutes and see how many times you have to stop and walk each time. Eventually work up to running for 30 minutes and so on.

Figure out what your barriers to exercise and eating well are, and make a plan to conquer and avoid those specific barriers. Take each barrier or excuse and write down ways you can solve the problem.

Put one sneaker in front of the other. Many of us waste too much time saying we need to work out but dread the process. Trick yourself by just getting dressed for it and not really thinking about the next step. If you take it one step at a time, before you know it you will finish the cool-down and feel amazing.

Make yourself an upbeat iPod play-list or CD and dance around as you straighten up at home; find a hip-hop or African dance class at the gym; learn to bellydance at an adult education class or at the Y; plan a girls' night out dancing. You can find a great list on my website.

Make active dates to see friends and family and do something that doesn't involve eating and drinking. Walk through the park, go biking in summer, ice skate or cross country ski in winter, walk the mall, take a yoga or cardio class, or run on a treadmill right next to my friend.

Think of food as a fuel, not as a gift, which means passing on food that is high in fat and sugar, and taking HALF the portion everyone else heaps onto their plate at a party and packing up half your food in a restaurant in a doggy bag.

If you have to be at a restaurant, identify the 3 healthiest things on the menu and pick between those.

Follow the food pyramid daily, by focusing on whole grains, fruits, vegetables, lean protein and calcium, not sweets and fats. Also, take a daily multi-vitamin

Don’t eat any bad food that is lying around the office. Bring healthy snacks to your desk that are sweet and/or salty, like whole wheat crackers, almonds, grapes, or chocolate soy milk. Buy a slow cooker so that you can prepare a healthy meal in the mornings, and its ready for you when you get home (its like having a personal chef at home all day, and gives you that extra hour for exercise!)

Drink no more than 2 alcoholic beverages at parties and events (if necessary, cut extra drinks with spritzers) and have a snack before these events so you don't attack the buffet line.

Drive less and walk more. Take the stairs when possible and never go a day without some exercise

Invest in a gym membership, if you don't have one already, and use it. If you don't have the money right now, buy an inexpensive workout DVD like my Military Wife Workout at nikkifitness.com or amazon.com.

Weigh yourself everyday to remember your goals and feel good about the choices you made yesterday.

Keep reading health and fitness columns online, subscribe to weekly e-mailed fitness tips like mine for regular inspiration, and subscribe to fitness magazines. Whether it's a new and healthy dish you can make, news about a recent medical study, interesting moves to try at home, or another person's story about how they reached their goals, any inspiration will help.

Pass this advice along. I saw a quote once that said “You are the average of the 5 people you hang out with the most.” So get your friends on the NikkiFitness Newsletter so you can have a partner to do the DVDs, eat healthy with you at a restaurant, cook good-for-you meals at parties, and do active social outings.
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Thursday, January 15

"BIRDS!" Alfred Hitchcock Style


Yes that handsome beast is my husband. Complete in his "Cousin Eddie" attire (from the National Lampoons Christmas movie). Kids, I can not make this stuff up! Before our actual PCS and after our homecoming ceremony. My soldier and I took a little leave back home to prepare things for our move. The moment we got in the door we heard what we thought was scurrying. "Do we have critters baby?" I asked totally freaked out. My husband said, "I'm sure it's just a rustle in the house, it's old." We were off to sleep without a thought. Well, sure enough the next morning we hear SQUACKING in our basement! My husband throws on a flannel and heads down to the dungeon withh a fishing net and gloves in tow. About 5 minutes later and a bit of wrestling match later, my husband emerges and runs to the door swings it open and lets a crow out. It flew away immediately. At first I was shocked, but then I couldn't help but laugh histerically! I mean look at him! In his super tough "Love" PJ pants, and that flannel and net! What a dork-fish! "THERE ARE 3 MORE!" he exclaimed while trying to go past me to the basement. I did make him stop for just a moment for a smooch. I had to let him know that re-integration is so much fun and that these moments we will remember all our lives. We both laughed a little and then he was back to work. Golly I love My "Cousin Eddie". It's so good having him home. :)
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PCS (Moving)... Oh, the joy!


Yes, that is a bit of sarcasm.
A wise woman once told me that perhaps I was a little too chipper for the ARMY and that they might eat me alive. She may have been very right. My husband and I just finished (like still organizing/unpacking) our first PCS. We did what is called a Partial DITY or Partial "Do-It-Yourself" move. We have a few things that are very special to us that we felt would be best moved safely on our own, but the rest was moved by the army. I mean really, how hard could it be to just load up a few things, weigh your vehicle and keep your receipts right? WRONG! We had no idea that all the time we spent waiting in the Transportation office and filling out DD Form this and DD Form that, was all the wrong paper work!!! Apparently, we did not inform them that we were doing some of the moving on our own and now there is a big ol' kink in the works. Bad news is I had a mild heart attack (just kidding, it was only stress), but the good news is that after a few offices, a little more paperwork and some really friendly people at the Transportation office here at Fort Stewart, all is well. Who knew... There really is a such thing as souther hospitality. The staff here is amazing. I truly mean that. I have had a great experience. However...I did have a really aweful experience with the movers. I'm so grateful for their work. I'm sure it is no fun getting out and doing this lugging and towing in all kinds of weather, but wow! We had one mover who was just remarkable. Prior military himself. He was friendly, polite, hardworking. The other mover was not so much though. He was panting, sweating, cursing, smoking (on and near my furniture) and barely moved a thing! Thank goodness for the other mover! On top of that, which I suppose isn't all that bad. My husband was out helping them move to keep the process going along and they REFUSED to do a full unpack! Now I know good and well that the army pays them to unpack and take away the cardboard and stuffings too! I was rapidly trying to unpack and get boxes back out to the truck before they left. Girls it was stressful. I needed 8 heads and 12 arms to do it all.
Please know that I am blessed. Everything arrived to me the day after I got to post, nothing broken, nothing harmed, my soldier is here and we are reintegrating... it's amazing. I am blessed beyond words. This has still been quite and experience. LOL If nothing else it's totally worth the picture I posted with this entry. This is my son, Major using a hotel ice bucket as a water dish. I know for some dog lovers you will understand. Mommy forgot to pack his dishes. My hubby and I got a good chuckle.

I apologize if my story sound chaotic or jumbled. Perhaps my mind still is a bit from the move and the homecoming. If nothing else I have learned I am blessed, stress happens, and if you can just giggle a little then it's all going to be okay. I'm fresh off of a PCS so if there are any questions out there let me know. I'm ready and willing to help :)
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Question for Marine Corps wives

I have a friend who is dating a Marine, and it may get more serious. She sometimes has questions about the military, and I'm pretty Army-centric so I don't always have Navy/Marine-specific answer to give her.

I was wondering if the Corps has any educational programs similar to Army Family Team Building, which tells you the basics of the military and some coping skills. And if they do, is there an online version for someone who is far from a base (such as reservists and the like)?

Please comment with your answers so I can help her out! Thanks ladies - I appreciate it, and I know she will too.
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FREE TAX PREP for miltary!

Free tax preparation and filing program is being offered through Military OneSource.

The link for the free program will be available through Military OneSource's website on January 19, 2009.

Visit the Military OneSource website on January 19th to access the link for this free tax program. www.militaryonesource.com
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Removable Decorating


Just finishing up a PCS is very exciting. My soldier and I have a whole new home to fix up and make our own, and yes it's on post! We found this great site with awesome stick on and removeable sayings that are great to decorate with. The company is Uppercase Living. I just had to share it with you. Here is a sneak peak with one of our pictures. This one is in our bedroom. (Sorry, I know it's a pretty basic photo.)The product is easy to use, looks great and is super fun!

Uppercase Living

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WALT DISNEY WORLD DEAL FOR MILITARY!!!!

Yes I am the world's BIGGEST KID! I am totally stoked to see that Disney (who rarely offers these kinds of deals is going all out for our military this year! You gotta check this out! Just follow the link below and the following link from this blog post for more information! Here's to the EARS! :)

DISNEY DEAL

Military & Civil Service Ticket Discounts

2009 Special Ticket Offer for Military

Walt Disney World has rolled out a special ticket deal for military
guests, valid 1/4/09-12/23/09. Each qualifying Military Service member*
will receive a complimentary 5-Day "Disney's Armed Forces Salute Ticket"
with Park Hopper and Water Park Fun & More Options. To receive the FREE
ticket, visit any theme park Guest Relations window and show proper ID.

In addition, up to 5 guests of the Military Service member can purchase
a $99 (plus tax) "Disney Armed Forces Salute Companion" ticket. This is
a 5-Day Base Ticket. Companions can add on Park Hopper and/or Water Park
Fun & More Options for $25 (plus tax) per option, which is half the
regular price.

Guests can pre-purchase the companion tickets (in the form of an
exchange
voucher) at Shades of Green or at a military base, TAX-FREE! The
exchange voucher is then taken to a theme park Guest Relations window,
where it is exchanged for the actual ticket.

The companion tickets can be purchased at the theme park Guest Relations
windows, but if you do this, you must pay tax.

*This offer is available to anyone on active duty in the US Army, Navy,
Air Force, Marines, Coast Guard, National Guard or Reserve, and retired
military. Activated members of the National Guard and Reservists must
present active duty orders in addition to valid military ID. You must
have been active for any length of time between 1/1/08 and 12/23/09.
Dept of Defense (CIA, FBI, Secret Service) and Coalition Forces are
excluded.

Entire party must be present at time of purchase, except that spouse and
military dependants can receive the companion discount without the
military service member being present, if they can show proper dependent
military ID. Offer available once per service member during the offer
period.

Tickets expire 12/23/09. No Expiration Option cannot be added to these
tickets. Complimentary tickets cannot be upgraded in any way. Companion
tickets may be upgraded to Premium, Annual or Seasonal Passes. (Seasonal
Pass upgrade requires proof of Florida residency.) No other upgrades,
such as adding additional days, will be available.

Active duty and retired military, DOD civilian employees and their
dependents qualify for discounts on Walt Disney World tickets. The
savings mainly come from not paying tax (6.5%).

Disney has the right to check ID at the gate. Military personnel may
bring in non-military guests with the military discount as long as they
accompany the non-military person(s) and at least 50% of the group are
qualified for the military discount (i.e., active duty, retired, DOD and
dependents). If military personnel purchase tickets and give them as
gifts to non-military users that they will not be accompanying, they
risk having the recipient denied entry and the tickets confiscated.

Discounted military tickets are available through your local base MWR
office. The prices and the exact passes that are available will vary
from base to base.

Another place where active duty and retired military can get discounted
tickets is a small Navy Exchange in Orlando that has an ITT/MWR office.
It is located near the airport on Tradeport & Earhart Drive. The MWR
office phone number is (407) 855-0116 or (407) 851-4396, or you can
email them at mwrorl@aol.com for current hours and prices.

Those with Military ID (and their dependents) can purchase discounted
tickets (including Annual Passes) at Shades of Green (SOG), the
military-operated resort located on Disney World property.

Active duty or retired military, reservists, National Guard and DoD
personnel can order discount tickets by mail order by calling the Navy
Region Southwest at (619) 767-6000 or the Air Force Central Ticket
Program at (210) 652-2855.

Civil Service employees of certain branches of government (such as NASA)
can purchase discounted Disney tickets at their exchange shops at the
same rates as military. Typically the tickets must be ordered and will
take a couple of weeks to arrive. While the employee must purchase the
tickets, reportedly anyone can use them.
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Wednesday, January 14

Something Special for dinner...

Something Special for dinner...

Hello All,

After spending two weeks of my vacation with my husband’s Puerto Rican mother…I still can not get enough of her first-class cooking!
I could never pass up a great recipe…I hope you like it also!

Wishing You the best,
Tara JW

Puerto Rican Beef Stew

Sancocho

Serves 6
Ingredients
• 2 tablespoons olive oil
• 5 garlic cloves, minced
• 1-1/2 pounds top round beef, cubed into 1-1/2-inch pieces
• 1/3 cup chopped yellow onions
• 1/3 cup chopped green pepper
• 1/3 cup chopped celery
• 1 teaspoon minced fresh gingerroot
• 1 chili pepper; seeded and minced
• 5 sprigs of cilantro, chopped
• 1/4 teaspoon ground cumin
• 1 teaspoon pulverized rock salt
• 1/4 teaspoon ground white pepper
• 1/3 cup burgundy wine
• 4 medium tomatoes, cored and chopped
• 4 quarts beef stock
• 2 green bananas, peeled and slice into 1-inch pieces
• 1 yellow plantain, peeled and sliced into 1/2-inch pieces
• 1 medium sweet potato (1/2 pound), diced into 1-inch pieces
• 1/2 pound butternut squash, peeled and cubed into 1-inch pieces
• 3 medium new potatoes, scrubbed clean and quartered
• 1 large chayote, peeled, cored, and diced into 1-inch pieces
• 2 ears of white corn, cleaned and sliced into 6 parts each

Preparation
1. In a preheated kettle over low-to-medium heat, combine olive oil, garlic, beef cubes, and onions, stir until beef is brown on all sides and onions begin to caramelize. Fold in chopped pepper, celery, gingerroot, chili pepper, cilantro, cumin, salt, white pepper, burgundy wine, tomatoes, and 1 quart of beef stock. Cook down until stock is reduced by half.

2. Stir beef, then fold in all the remaining vegetables and beef stock. Continue to cook until meat is tender and the vegetables soft.
Serving Suggestions:
Since this soup contains beef and vegetables, it is hearty already. Serve alongside a fresh bread and use the bread to soak up some of this delicious flavor.


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Wire A Cake to your soldiers girls! Valentine's Day!!

This is the perfect time to place your order for a valentine cake to be shipped overseas to and APO or FPO address. We estimate up to 10 days for travel time so please don't delay.We are offering our moist 9" rd single layer cakes: chocolate, marble or vanilla frosted with the traditional white sugar frosting and covered with a layer of hand made rolled fondant. The inscription is written on the edible frosting sheet and placed on the cake.

If you mention this email (blog from AWTR) we will add a valentine art graphic at no additional charge, savings of $5.00! Or we have a tin filled with 2 dozen Valentine decorated sugar cookies! Please call us at 1-800-WireACake {1-800-947-3222} or place your order online at http://www.wireacake.com/cakeordering.html We thank you for your continued business!

Tell Deb and her crew AWTR sent you!
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Tuesday, January 13

Emotional Reading

Our Book Club book for this month is Melissa Seligman's The Day After He Left For Iraq. I am thrilled that Melissa will be joining us next Monday night for our on air book club segment on Army Wife Talk Radio. I have a lot of questions for her, but I would love to have questions either submitted by listeners or have listeners call in next week. If you have a question email me at sarah@armywifetalkradio.com. I will be posting about the book all month long, so it is not too late to start reading.

This is an emotional read. From the very beginning Seligman hits you with the very raw emotion of the final hours before her husband deploys. She does an amazing job capturing the emotion of her husband as he holds their children for the last time before he leaves. The presence of her mother brings the emotion of the farewell to a new level. You expect the wife and husband to be upset, but you aren't prepared for the mother's tears, her obvious pain. The first chapter is just a preview of the poignant memoir of the day to day experience of a deployment.



Melissa Seligman has written a book that is so raw and so real that you feel like you are sitting in her head watching her life through her eyes. The incredible detail with which she captures the range of emotion throughout the deployment and reintegration is amazing. The intensity of some of the situations makes you want to cover your eyes, but peak through your fingers so you don't miss any of Seligman's
struggle.

The greatest accomplishment of the book is that she puts into words what so many women have thought and experienced and makes it okay, makes it normal. Melissa Seligman has written a book that is beautiful because of the honesty and the raw emotion that is portrayed in all-encompassing detail.
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Mashed Cheesy Cauliflower

1 cup chicken broth
1 large head cauliflower
1/3 cup, about 3 ounces, Alouette or other garlic and herb soft, Alouette makes several yummy flavors.
1/2 cup Parmesan Cheese


Trim away greens and stems from the base of cauliflower. Cut away the core with a sharp paring knife. Set cored head into pot with broth. Cover pot and bring liquid to a boil. Reduce heat to medium low and cook cauliflower, covered, until tender, 8 to 10 minutes. Uncover the pot and mash the cauliflower. Let some liquid cook off as you smash the cheeses into the cauliflower. As the mixture thickens, turn off heat and season with salt, pepper. Transfer cauliflower to a serving dish.

I double the recipe and add an entire six ounce package. Also I have left the parmesan cheese out and I didn't notice much difference. If you are watching calories or points, you can leave it out.

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Monday, January 12

Army Wife Life Discussion - Jan 12th

Our question tonight was submitted by listener Joni who wrote in - how about a discussion on staying at a military post versus "going home"? this is my husband's 3rd deployment to the middle east and he also did an unaccompained tour to korea years ago. i was always at a military post except this time. he bought a house near his family and the boys and i stayed here for the deployment. (big mistake!). what a difference to be away from military support, (most people do not even fly an american flag in their yard), far away from army family, activities on post, medical care, etc..

Is this your opinion or experience? What advice would you give a new spouse who was facing deployment alone – stay or go?

Here our opinions - listen to Jan 12th's show! http://www.ArmyWifeTalkRadio.com
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AWTR Mess Hall - share recipes (or tips) for Salads & Sandwiches

Strawberry Vinigarette Dressing – great on spinach with toasted pecans or almonds and your favorite cheese!
• 1 cup olive oil
• 1/2 pint fresh strawberries, halved
• 2 tablespoons balsamic vinegar
• 1/2 teaspoon salt
• 1/4 teaspoon ground black pepper
• 1/4 teaspoon dried tarragon
• 1/4 teaspoon white sugar
DIRECTIONS
1. In a blender or food processor, mix olive oil, strawberries, balsamic vinegar, salt, pepper, tarragon and sugar. Blend until smooth.
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Orange Poppy Seed Salad Dressing

Yummy and GREAT for Spring time!

-3 tablespoons sugar
-1 1/2 teasppons finley shredded orange peel
-2 tablespoons orange juice
-2 tablespoons vinegar
-1 tablespoons finely chopped onion
-Dash black pepper
-1/3 cup salad oil
-1 teaspoon poppy seeds

In a food processor bowl or blender container combine sugar, orange peel, orange juice, vinegar, onion and pepper. Cover and process or blend until combined. With processor or blender running, slowly add 1/3 cup salad oil in a steady stream until misture is thickend. Stir in Poppy seeds.... serve immediately or store in fridge for up to a week. Shake well. ENJOY!!!


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You can make the difference

Hello All,

Please check out the below website...I believe this will offer each of us a great opportunity to get involved in our community on a different level. If you are already involved great...this could offer you an excellent opportunity to meet with others like yourself.

http://usaservice.org/content/home/

Wishing you the best!

Tara JW
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What seems impressive from the outside....

So, my basic course is looming closer and closer, and I do mean looming. All those things that seemed, well, impressive and dare I say manly? in my husband are seeming intimidating now. That he can deal with hardship is impressive - that doesn't mean I'm all that keen to do so! I don't even really like camping - what am I doing joining the Army? LOL. I am fairly uncoordinated and don't have good spatial skills - what am I thinking to undergo training where I have navigate through the wilderness while tired and in a totally unfamiliar environment? I don't like getting up early or running - why am I doing this again? It's sheer craziness. In fact, I realized recently that it feels much like junior high PE. My 7th grade teacher, Mr. Nielsen, seemed never to have gotten over his time in the military - so every morning at 7:30 I was being yelled at, doing calisthenics, running in the rain, and generally doing things at which I was mostly a total failure or were just plain not fun for me. I'm a little worried my training is going to be very similar.... and junior high was NOT a good time period for me!

I have a few different methods for dealing with the anxiety. Method #1 is avoidance. I just don't think any further than showing up and taking the oath. But that only works some of the time. Method #2 involves talking it out - which mostly, I think, frustrates my husband because nothing he says makes my anxiety any better. Then I feel like I'm annoying him, and so part 2 of method 2 sometimes involves getting more upset and fearful than I should. Method #3 is my husband's favorite - education. He's busily teaching me things like mapreading and land nav, and his favorite so far, ruckmarching. He got great amounts of pleasure in me putting on combat boots and loading up a rucksack and walking hills with him. He, of course, was wearing sneakers and a camelback! We must have looked like quite a pair - perhaps the neighbors thought he felt I really needed to lose weight. Or maybe I was being punished. I don't know what they thought - but we got a few strange looks!



I know that most people make it through, and they do try to set you up for success, and that I've accomplished most things I've set my mind to. Most of the time I'm okay (though that may be method #1). Sometimes the anxiety of making such a drastic choice does well up, though. Thankfully I have good friends. I'm amazed at how supportive my friends are - even the friends I've only known the last six months. I feel like my short stay at this station was such a success - I'd never have guessed I'd have so many people who wanted to come to my going-away party when I've only been here a short time. It helps heal some of those wounds from my nerdy, picked-on days of junior high. Maybe my military training will heal the rest! Joining the military as therapy - who'd have thought?

P.S. I'm open to suggestions for adapting and succeeding, if anyone has any!
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Saturday, January 10

What was cookin at my house

There were so many great tips on the show and in the chat room last week. Someone in the chat room was talking about cooking a months worth of meals in one day. I've been thinking about this because it seems since starting school the one thing I've been short on is time.

I decided to try the idea of pre cooking meals, only not in such a large scale as a month. I decided to take a baby step and try doing a week. Today was a perfect day, it was snowing and nothing was really happening. I had gone grocery shopping yesterday. This afternoon for a couple hours I cooked all my dinners for the week. I put everything in freezer containers with labels. It wasn't as bad as I thought it was going to be, actually it was very easy. I like the idea of knowing there is an home cooked meal I don't have to worry about doing all the prep work for when I'm so busy during the week.
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Tuesday, January 6

Public/Private/Home School

The debate continues at our house. In KY when we were there we had our kids in private school. They started out at DoDea schools and we quickly became aware at the shortfalls in the system. There would be nothing we could do to fix that so we chose to move our kids. We LOVED having them in the school they were at. It was expensive but worth it because it is our children's education. (let me back up and say that our girls also went to private school in TX) Fast forward to today. We moved to NC about 18 months ago. Searched high and low for schools before we got here. Decided we would give the public schools a try. The test scores are good and we had heard good things about the schools. Not to mention the bus drives right past the house. This is our second year at public schools here and we are now looking at switching the kids to private school again.I feel that since my children test well, can read well and aren't a problem child that they get overlooked in the public school system.

My youngest is second grade this year. He does have a mild case of A.D.D. The teacher and I have talked about this. We have discussed several things about Parker. But it seems like every time I ask or question something she then makes him the favorite and he never gets in trouble for not turning in work or not bringing home his agenda. Not that I want my kids in trouble but Parker, of all my children, needs the structure and discipline.

Then there is Tanner who is in 3rd grade. I have to reteach the math lesson everyday. I don't mind helping him with his homework but if I have to completely reteach the lesson I might as well home school. His teacher was so worried about getting us in and out at parent teacher conferences that we hardly had time to get a word in. Basically he's a good student and we have nothing to worry about. When in reality we do. He broke the arm he writes with about 19 months ago. Had to have pins put in and since removed. But he needs help correcting his handwriting now. I have asked for help with this several times and get no where.

I feel like I am beating my head against a rock. It feels like because I have good kids they are being punished and not looked at as needing help from time to time. The school systems are so crowded with special needs and out of control children that the regular kids get passed over. I worked in the school system for a few years and got frustrated with the process and left.

Now I will say that at the middle school my girls have grown very much and are thriving there despite the constant fights in the girls lcoker room and some of the behavior. My girls are doing well there. We are considering leaving them where they are at because they are doing so well.

I don't remember my parents having this many issues with my education. I did go to private school and public school. I honestly thought that it would get easier as my kids got older. No diapers/diaper bags and all the gear for the babies. But as they get older we just have a new set of things to deal with. Soon it will be driving and high school.
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On the go again, I just can't wait to be on the go again.....

Life truly never stops. Somedays I wish it would or at least let me hit the pause button so I could get caught up on laudnry. The holiday break was nice. No school, no schedule just our family together. We chose not to travel this year for the holidays. With Ted coming and going we decided to stay put. I enjoy starting traditions with our kids. That are our traditions. Like Christmas morning. We get up open presents, have breakfast and just hang out in our PJ's all day playing and watching movies. We have a late lunch/early dinner and just relax all day. I enjoy the slow pace of life that day.Next year we know that Ted will be deployed and I will travel home for the holidays. I guess we have two sets of holiday traditions at our house. The ones when dad is deployed and the ones when he is home.
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Monday, January 5

Back in the saddle....

Whew! I feel like a tornado just flew by and I am standing here in the midst of the wreckage. The tornado was the past few weeks - the holiday, the travel , the parties, the food, the presents, the decorations.....It was here and gone in a flash but I think it zapped my energy and took it with it!

We headed back into the "saddle" again tonight for the first AWTR show since we went on "vacation" for the holidays. Man was it nice to be back. I felt some sort of normalcy. Isn't that strange? I didn't know what day it was when we were "off". I kept feeling like I was missing something when it came around to Monday and my husband would remind me "you're off remember?"

Anyway, that's where I am. I'm sitting on a chair surrounded by paperwork at my desk, a calendar full of chicken scratch, glasses that need cleaning, 16 post it notes, and a house full of dust and things to pick up. My Christmas decorations are in boxes as of today - YEAH! Our house is somewhat back in order but now needs a good old fashioned cleaning. My inbox - well let's not even talk about that. We'll get there and we'll be on to our next bigger and better thing - our next party, our next set of decor, our next travel ......I feel like I've been traveling since June.

Here's to having the energy to make it through 2009 like I did through 2008!
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She was Precious…

She was Precious…

I am so thankful to be in this New Year…one that will most definitely be filled with multiple changes for me and my family. Now that MW has been home for more than a month we have had the opportunity to enjoy each other and the holidays with both of our families together. Honestly…the memories we created this holiday season will be cherished by both of us. Unfortnately…my aunt ended her battle with cancer when we arrived in KY to celebrate the New Year. We are all thankful for the special moments we each were able to share with her. Before she passed I had the opportunity to visit her in the hospital to enjoy her awesome outlook on life even in the face of death.

When she was just a young woman and mother of two beautiful children and not to mention recently divorced, she left KY in 1974 to accept a job working for the pentagon. This woman was definitely something special. She told me she was very excited about MW and me moving forward with our life and new direction. Before moving back to KY around 5 years ago to retire she lived in the DC and Virginia area for almost 30 years. This woman refused to let life pass her by and she always encouraged each of us to do the same! MW, my father and myself had the opportunity to visit her in the hospice medical center just before she passed away…it was so heartbreaking…she missed making it to 2009 by approximately 24hrs.

Psalm 23 (King James Version)

Psalm 23
1The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want.
2He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.
3He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
4Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.
5Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.
6Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the LORD for ever.

The beautiful thing is that she sent each of us into the New Year with the peace of knowing she is no longer in pain and based on our faith we know she is in a beautiful place now. I will take the memory of her lovely and determined spirit with me as MW and I begin our new journey this month.

Wishing You the Best in 2009 and always!!!
Tara JW

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Smarter New Year Resolution Blog Tour!


Mom’s Talk Radio announces a new online event that will span across our entire network between now and Valentine’s Day. It’s called ‘Mom’s Smarter New Year Resolution Tour‘ and it’s a show by show track of fun ‘resolution’ focused topics for all of the different areas of a mom’s life.


The tour is still under development - here are the dates we have set so far.

Monday, Jan 5 - Smarter Podcasting on WAHM Talk Radio
Monday, Jan 12 - Smarter Decluttering on The Household Helper
Wed, Jan 21 - Smarter Blogging on Profitable Mommy Blogging
Monday, Jan 26 - Smarter Beauty on Army Wife Talk Radio
Monday, Feb 2 - Smarter Homemaking on Natural Moms Talk Radio
Thurs, February 12 - Smarter SEO on Product Sellers Talk Radio

Please check back often to see new tour dates added (click here)

We have new shows joining the Mom’s Talk Radio network in January and they WILL be joining our tour as well - which reminds me to invite other family friendly mom focused podcasters to consider joining our network! www.momstalkradio.com
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Happy New Year


Can you believe that it's 2009 already? I can't. I can't believe that a year ago I was crying myself to sleep everynight, worrying about my Bubba in the sandbox. I also can't believe that our wedding is fast approaching! Four months to go! Where has the time gone? Of course, it's like he and I have sedentary lives either. We're always on the go. Between two different Army drill schedules, two children, my school schedule, the house buying process, etc. time has flown. This year, 2009, is a HUGE year for Matt and I. On Christmas day, we found out that the offer we put in on a house we liked was accepted! Merry Christmas to us! So, at the end of this mont not only will I be giving my senior recital, but we will be in the midst of moving. This is my last semester of classes before I do my student teaching. We're getting married in May. Matthew's contract is up in July, so he needs to decide what he's going to do (I told him that with over 12 years in he'd be stupid to get out). His sister-in-law, my sister-in-law, and a good friend of ours are all expectig babies. My mom finally turns 50. I graduate in the fall (a week before Christmas) and Matt will finally get his Private Pilot's license. So, 2009 is a huge year for us. Someone help me to keep my sanity between now and the wedding - PLEASE! Oye Vey! When I originally picked the date for my wedding, finals week was going to be the week before the wedding - not the week of! Then, NKU decided to move it and so now I have finals the week of my wedding. While I'm still technically on winter break (although I am taking a web class), I'm trying to finalize some of the wedding plans. We did take Abby to buy her dress. It was SO much fun! She said that she felt so grown up and so proud when trying on the dresses. We've finally picked out some reception music. For instance, our first dance is going to be to Isn't It Romantic by Ella Fitzgerald. I can't wait! We both love the good old stuff sung by Dean Martin, Frank Sinatra, Ella Fitzgerald, Louis Armstrong, etc. We haven't put any modern stuff into the mix as of yet, with the exception of When I'm Sixty Four by the Beatles and Hit Me With Your Best Shot (for the Bouquet toss) by Pat Benetar. I've got our programs designed. I've got the invitations designed. My maids are awesome. On top of this, I'm also worrying about my recital. I'm hoping I'll still fit in the dress I bought. One thing at a time - well as best as possible. I can't believe we're buying a house. We had the house inspection over the weekend. No big deal breakers. A bunch of little inexpensive fixes. Thank goodness! I hope you all have a happy new year planned - maybe not quite so busy - because breathing is good.
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Friday, January 2

Military Life for Dummies?

You got it! :) Join us Monday night for our first show back from holiday! WHOO HOOO!!
We’re featuring author Sue Hoppin of "A Family's Guide to the Military - For Dummies". Field Problems Resource of the Week - Defender's Own, The Newbie Minute, Real Life Warrior, and Household 6!

Grab your copy in the AWTR Bookstore!
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Unique Learning Environments



An article in the Washington Post over the summer from an unhappy high school English teacher made me think about how what we try to do at K12, in English as in other courses, differs from so many other learning environments.

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Book Club

The book for January is The Day After He Left For Iraq by Melissa Seligman. Melissa is going to be joining us for the on air book club segment on Army Wife Talk Radio on January 19th. We will be reading the book all month, I will be posting on the blog and we will also be able to discuss the book in the chat room during the show all month long.

If you haven't ordered the book yet, there is still time!! You can order through the links at the top of the blog or on www.armywifetalkradio.com through the link on the book list.

We had a glimpse of the book when Melissa came on the show as the main guest and so many people were excited about the book we decided to read it for book club!



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